Having cancer makes me feel so isolated from other people. What can I do?

Q: Having cancer makes me feel so isolated from other people. What can I do?

A: Many research studies have shown the value of social support for cancer patients and their families. Yet many feel isolated by their diagnosis and treatment because friends, co-workers, and relatives may withdraw or simply not be nearby or have the time to connect. This isolation not only hurts emotionally, but it’s bad for you physically.

Sharing with others who are experiencing challenges similar to yours is very beneficial. Participating in a support group reduces anxiety, depression, and feelings of isolation. Pain and side effects also decrease for those in groups. You may believe that a support group is not for you, but it’s worth trying. You’ll find groups for patients, as well as caregivers and families, through local hospitals or cancer organizations.
--Bernice Crook, RN, OCN

At Caring4Cancer, oncologist Jeremy Geffen, M.D., talks about the importance of connecting with others  for psychosocial support as part of his “Seven Levels of Healing.”