I see you had posted this in October, I had lost my sister to breast cancer in August we had found out in Sept '96 if she had any indication that she had breast cancer she never said I do know that for the first three months of finding out I and her husband were her caregivers she never once complained of pain but you could tell that she suffered most with the unknown. I have just come upon this web site I wished I had known it was here while we went through the unknowns in her life I hope that you still have your wife and that maybe she's winning the battle of this dreadful disease. I know that her faith in God is what helped my precious sister get throgh the rough times. As for me I suffer with the pain of losing my very best friend. continue to be there and be strong for her. my sister left this life at the young age of 53, I just miss her so much, My prayers for you and your wife.