Last December I had a bilateral mastectomy.  In February, because I needed to move, I purged my wardrobe of all my winter clothes.  I saved my summer wardrobe, however, I now realize that even if I have reconstructive surgery I will never be a DD (nor would I choose to be).  How do I decide which blouses/tops to purge.  Is it as easy as saying "everything"? 

I know my question may seem shallow at first glance, but in actuality it represents a great deal more.  Facing the change in my body is dramatic.  First I focused on the surgery and recovery, and then chemo.  I now have a moment to look at myself (before radiation begins).  The clothes represent the past, and something that will never be again.  Which is okay.  I'm unsure why I saved the summer shirts/blouses.  But I know having a closet full of clothes that I cannot wear has become an obstacle.  If anyone can offer some advise I would greatly appreaciate it.

Thanks

 The # 1 most important thing is to do whatever makes you feel the most comfortable ! I have had 2 surgeries on my right breast. It is now significantly smaller than the left due to the amount of tissue removed. I don't want to even them out daily by wearing a prosthesis. I feel most comfortable wearing loose fitting tops & blouses, Nothing tailored or with darts that will make it obvious. I still have a lot of my old clothes, some bring back good memories. I also have purchased several new tops that help conceal the problem. I choose to wear whatever makes me the most comfortable & confident with my new figure. I feel it is important to dress in a way that keeps my spirits up while going through chemo & all the rest to follow. It is not as easy as pitch everything ! Keep what you feel comfortable in & still like. The rest you could donate to the Susan Komen clothes boxes. I don't know if you have them where you live, but we have them all over in the Cleveland area. Good luck !! Remember YOU need to feel comfortable.

great idea to donate to Susan Komen clothes boxes so someone else can use the clothes.I haven't had my bilateral mastectomy yet with reconstruction. It is scheduled for Friday August 13, 2010. I like the idea of purging the clothes for arm exercise, but would have to go out and buy new clothes. That might be fun.

 Your question would only seem shallow to someone who has not had to deal with a mastectomy.  Clothes (or breasts for that matter) don't make the woman, but what we wear should be comfortable physically and emotionally.  Keep what you like and donate the rest.