Hi my name is Paula. My fiance, Tom, has been diagnosed with esophogial cancer. The world of cancer is hard to say the least. Anyone, please reply.

Hey, My boyfriend has lung cancer and yes it is scary. I have never had any friends with cancer therefore I have no idea what to expect.

Hi Paula, sorry to hear about your fiance Tom...  I am Lucille and I am a 3 year Breast Cancer survivor.  My Mother had Breast Cancer which has lead to Bone cancer... The good part is that it's been 16 years and she is still living a full life.  Sometimes it's hard to find someone who understands.  It is hard path but it good to talk about it.. If you ever wish to chat I am here ...

Hope you are having a good day !!!!!

Lucille

 Hi, My name is Nancy. I had Hodgkins disease at 20years old and was treated with radiation in 1983. In 2004 I was diagonised with thyriod cancer probably caused by the radiation. I was treated with surgery and  I131 radiation therapy. In 2007 they found more cancer and had another surgery and more I131 treatment.  I am starting to see a counsler because all the doctors and tests are over whelming. She stated it is a good idea to see someone because depression and cancer goes together. If you have any questions about some of my treatments let me know. Stay strong!

Hi, I am Lucille - I was diagnosed with breast cancer in Nov 20, 2005.  I had a lumpectomy and 6 weeks of radiation.  I have thyroid problems, does not produce enough hormone, for as long as I can remember. 

It does seem true that cancer and depression are good friends.  It can be hard when you are diagnosed with cancer of any kind.  After you are diagnosed it seems that your life gets busy with tests and doctor visits.  This month it will be 3 years and when I see my doctor I still get nervous.  I have a mammogram and a PET Scan scheduled in Dec and I don't look forward to it.  But it is good to talk about it.  You have gone far and that's great.  What helps me sometimes is to take things a day at a time and sometimes a minute at a time.

Hope to hear from you....  Lucille

Hi Lucille,

Thank you for your letter. It was a really big help. I was writing you a nice long one and this website just dumped it and I had to start all over. Grrrrrrrr!!!!

You can write to me directly at paloverde70@yahoo.com. That might work better for both of us if you like. 

Hope to hear from you,

Paula and Tom

Hi Nancy,

Good to hear from you and I would love to hear more from you!

Email Tom and I at paloverde70@yahoo.com directly. I'm really having trouble with this website. I try to reply to a letter and if I take too long to reply, I have to start over. Not fun!

Yes, I do have a question, what is  an I131 radiation treatment?

I am just beginning to see how cancer and depression go hand in hand with Tom and it's hard all the way around.

Hope to hear from you,

Paula and Tom

 TOBoyle:

I was just diagnosed this month also and have the feeling my husband if feeling the same way.  I find knowledge is power and the more you know and understand what is happening the less scared you are of the future (but not always).  I just find with me and my husband knowing what to expect is always better than imagining the worst. 

Have you contacted the American Cancer Society, Reach for Recovery program?  They provide many programs for patient and loved ones for support and all kinds of stuff.  The website is www.cancer.org.

Hope this helps!  It's a big shock and takes some time to absorb it all.

Take Care, both of you!
Sherry