I am a caregiver. How can I get my family member/loved one/friend who has cancer to get involved in this program?

Q: I am a caregiver. How can I get my family member/loved one/friend who has cancer to get involved in this program?

I believe that caregivers can best support a person with cancer by doing the following. First, do all you can to ensure that the person's medical team is the best available, and that the patient trusts and respects them. Second, do your best to offer unconditional love and support for whatever choices the patient makes--even if you disagree. This may be difficult, so remember to care for yourself and get the support you need. Third, you can tell them about The Seven Levels of Healing, created by an oncologist to help patients and families navigate through cancer as skillfully and effectively as possible.

Ask if they are interested in learning more about it. Be sensitive to their wishes, interests, and priorities. Offer to go through the program with them. If they decline, consider going through it yourself, or with a friend, or as part of a group. Then, if you share your personal experience, your loved one or friend may become interested and ask to learn more. You can also check Dr. Geffen's schedule by clicking here, and see if he is speaking near you. You can bring your loved one or friend to hear him, which many people find inspiring. Another option is to give them a copy of Dr. Geffen's book, The Journey Through Cancer: Healing and Transforming the Whole Person, which can be ordered here.

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